John raises the topic of knowing yourself. Asking relevant questions of a potential partner in life brings about the real discussion of where your future may be headed. Listening is most important for sure. Yet its seems these conversations are just that unless you know something about yourself. To be able to ask relevant questions depends upon knowing yourself and communicating what's important to you. It's an important starting point for relationship discussions.
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